Intervention? Is This an Option for a Parent Who Won’t Stop Drinking?
Adult children of alcoholics feel helpless as they watch a parent continue drinking, spiraling deeper and deeper into despair and self-destruction. You’ve talked to your mother or father. You’ve asked them to stop drinking. You’ve asked them how you can help. You’ve offered to make an appointment for them with an addiction specialist. Despite your best efforts, their addiction to alcohol continues. Nothing that you have said or done has helped get them into treatment.
Is intervention a solution for my parent who won’t stop drinking?
Interventional specialists at a New Jersey drug inpatient program help the family of a loved one come to grips with their addiction and accept treatment.
What is intervention? An intervention is a carefully orchestrated meeting that occurs between the family and the person with the addiction. The family may be guided by an interventional specialist who helps them structure the meeting with their loved one.
- During the intervention, your parent is confronted with the realities of their destructive behavior and how their behavior is impacting the entire family.
- The family presents a pre-arranged plan of treatment at a specific facility and outlines how this plan can successfully help the parent stop their self-destructive behavior.
- The family details the consequences to the parent if they don’t receive treatment.
Where do we start?
Choose a New Jersey drug inpatient program that offers Interventional Services. Your loved one doesn’t have to have hit “rock-bottom.” Waiting may result in your loved one’s health deteriorating into a life-threatening situation. The Intervention Specialist will help you carefully plan the intervention meeting.
- The meeting must be well planned so that family members will know how to respond to the loved one’s response. Some alcoholics may be in denial while others may become combative. Knowing your responses in advance prevents unexpected surprises.
- An intervention is best managed as a group meeting, not a one-on-one meeting. Include people who are empathetic toward helping your parent. You might want to include one of their siblings, a close friend, a co-worker, a religious leader as well your other siblings who are supportive.
- Meet before the actual intervention to practice responses for the most likely objections your parent may offer.
Interventions are one of the most successful methods to help your parent get the help they need. A properly planned and executed intervention results in your parent acknowledging that alcohol has taken over their lives and that they need help. The first step is the hardest as they get into the car to travel to a New Jersey drug inpatient program. If your parent refuses, you must follow through with the consequences you laid out in the intervention.